Nienna believes the downfall of all things to be pride – this includes Ainur, Elves, Dwarves, Men, Hobbits. Any living creature begins to find sorrow and lose the path to redemption and forgiveness when they believe themselves to be better than others. 

She herself recognizes her place as both Valar and Aratar but she tries very hard not to be prideful about her position. She accepts the responsibilities these titles set upon her shoulders but she does not brag and often speaks very humbly to even the most undeserving of creatures.

She fears that if she begins to pride herself on her power and position, she may also unintentionally hurt others.

Despite her ideals, she does not like to be viewed as weak. She attests that there is a difference between being prideful and simply wanting to be respected though she may never make any real effort to gain said respect.

Most do not find respect for her until after they have passed and she is at their side offering comfort where Námo will not. It bothers her, as she is easily wounded by words and thoughts, but she will not hold anyone’s trespasses against them.

So she remains humble, but wishes greatly to be respected despite the fact that she will not force someone to respect her.